Rémino is the personal Web site and journal of Rémi, a trilingual Acadian Web developer and Japan enthusiast in his 20's from New Brunswick, Canada who resided in Ottawa and is currently in Saitama near Tokyo. He publishes photos and videos and writes here about anything. He also writes a lot on Twitter and about his life in Japan on Edojin.

Moving Giveaway

The moving sale and giveaway is now over.  Thank you everyone, including my friends who gave me a hand, buyers, and the publishers of my ads, for your support throughout the event!

I’m now getting ready to move in Japan this Thursday.

Moving Sale 2009

As October 18, 2009 is the last day of the moving sale, it is now a moving giveaway.  Please visit the page about the moving giveaway for details.

A Tuesday Evening

Bank Street Construction at Night

The folks at the street corner coffee shop near my workplace invited me a few times for classic movie screenings in a nearby restaurant.  One lady working at the coffee shop also works at the restaurant at night.  I don’t know how people can do two jobs without going out of their minds.  Somewhat, I did the same this year, but I’m not working with the public.  I can really admire people who are sociable enough to be able to comfortably do that kind of work.

Tuesday night a week ago was the weekly movie screening.  I thought since there’s nothing urgent for me to do in the night before my last day of work, I might as well relax and go enjoy that movie.  Having a few hours to spend before the event, I did my little things on my computer while waiting for my laundry upstairs.  When my timer was up, reminding me the dryer completed its cycle, I went up in the elevator, picked up my laundry, and again in the elevator, went back downstairs.  The ride back had one surprise, however.  A second man entered, and as a third one made his way in a few floors lower, a dog joined him.  The second man in the corner asked him, “Is this your dog?”  “No,” he replied, “I just saw two man living it behind.  I guess it wasn’t theirs either.”  The questioner was a bit surprised and finished his remarks just before the door opened on my floor, “What a poor dog.  Alone and lost in this building.”

The dog got out first, while I was heading out the elevator.  It dashed down the hallway and stopped right in front of my apartment door, like it knew where I lived.  I suddenly started talking to myself, or at most, to the dog.  “How did you know?”  Maybe it picked up my trail when I walked out the apartment to go to the elevator.  I unlocked the door, and the dog went in, like it was home.  It was ironic for me, since I thought recently about getting a pet someday if I wasn’t moving.  The small dog found a place to stay, but it was still disoriented, try to sniff its way to its owner.  It looked like I had to skip movie night and take care of the dog until I can find the owner.

Looking for the owner, the dog and I went down in the lobby and up on the floor where it found me.  There was no identification tag on the dog’s collar, which would have made the job easier.  The dog was still trying to find clues of its owner’s whereabouts, as it was often distracted by other trails and frequently stopped to check its surrounding while following me.  We gave up and went back to my place where I gave it some water.  I thought it will need food, as it looked like it was going to spend some time with me.  As I put on my jacket to go out and get some dog food, someone was whistling and calling the dog, floor by floor.  I heard her voice, quickly got out of my apartment.  We looked at each other when I said, “I have your dog!”  The dog just ran out towards the lady.  Happy to have found the dog again, she hugged me, grabbed the dog in her arms, wished me a good evening, and walked away.

Bank Street Construction Signs at Night

Movie night just started.  Already having my jacket on, I went out and walked fast towards the restaurant.  I got in late.  There were a few seats left.  I sat down in front of couple and watched the movie.  The title was Two-Lane Blacktop.  It was a strange cult movie, but one I liked.  I was waiting for an opportunity to grow my love for lesser-known cult movies like that one and this was a perfect one.  Moving in the city made me realize there are many more movies than the popular ones everyone want to go see.  I’m glad I found nice gems in the area where I can watch or rent excellent underestimated films.

At around 10:30 in the night, after the movie, walking back home on Bank Street, still under construction, I stopped by a video rental store.  I think I haven’t been in one for years.  I’m not sure why I went in at such time.  Besides me, there was only a clerk, and an old lady browsing in the sales bin.  I didn’t have any intention of renting or buying a movie.  Nowadays, I download movies I rent, and I’m usually more interested in films you wouldn’t find among blockbusters.  I exited the store, slowly walked the rest of my path back home while taking time to observe everything around me.  When I went in bed at around midnight, I thought, “Today’s the last day.”

The next day, my co-workers took time to have lunch with me.  One by one, they said their words of farewell.  At 5, I was the last person in the office.  I was printing some documents I needed and wrote my last e-mail to everyone at work while I was thinking how much I’m going to miss working with them.  After I clicked the “Send” button and my documents were printed, I closed my notebook, stored it in my bag, made sure my desk was spotless, enabled the alarm system, got out the office, locked the door, and slipped my key under the door.  That was it.  I’m now a jobless man, getting ready for Japan.

Later in the evening, my friend joined me for an animated film.  It was Evangelion, a remake of a Japanese animated series I was very fond of during my late teenage years.  The movie was the perfect distraction to prevent me from thinking too much about what’s coming for me next.

Only 22 days to go,” was my last thought that evening.

The Aylmer Talker

Aylmer Marina

Guess what?  After having spent weeks mindfully packing for my upcoming move to Japan next month, I finally have some time to write!  Hurray!  And to celebrate, how about more stories of people whom I wish they’d speak to someone other than me.  I’m about to tell you the tale of…  The Aylmer Talker.

My friend NoMez and I drove to the marina in Aylmer simply to relax and kill some time.  We were saying how much we’ll miss each other when I’ll be gone — after all, we consider ourselves brothers.  If we wouldn’t have met in college nine years ago in Dieppe, never I’d be in Ottawa today, and I probably wouldn’t fly to Japan next month.  He helped me settle in the area in 2004 after I quit my job at the call centre in Moncton — the only kind of job you can get around there.  I would have never met the wonderful friends I have here, never improved my Japanese, never got jobs in my field, and never met my girlfriend.  Living in Ottawa for the past five years surely affected my life forever and certainly didn’t waste my time like in Moncton.

We were in the early evening, snapping a few shots of the sunset onlooking all the yacths and windsurfers.  A few dozens photos in, while framing my next one, a man in his forties slowed his bike down to a stop right behind us.  “That’s really beautiful,” he exclaimed.  After thanking him, he ensues, “It looks like quite a nice camera.  Look at mine!”  His hand reached down his pocket and brought out a cellphone.  “I’m telling you nowadays these things can do everything.  Camera, music, calculator…”  I understood he was impressed that his camera and his cellphone were one.  “Yes, it’s been common lately for small gadgets to perform many popular functions,” I replied.

I thought this will be a short, innocent discussion about photos and cellphones.  Still, after 15 minutes, he went on…

Talk To That Person

I’m unlucky, but I’m strong.  Biking is dangerous around here, you know.  I’ve been hit numerous times before, even by large trucks, and after a dozen broken limbs, I’m still alive today!”  Unfortunate, of course, but where he saw no luck, I noticed plenty of it, or at least hope, if it wasn’t luck.

I’ll spare you the details about the monologue of his with no foreseeable end.  To summarize, he carried on his verbal memoirs by talking about his countless accidents and their following operations, the cost of his medication, the daily life of his wife…  You see, the list goes on and I’m pretty sure your mind is numb already.  Never did my friend and I had a chance to add our tales.  Heck, besides short talk fillers and our nodding heads, we couldn’t insert a single word.  He was reciting his life to an audience like that night was his last.  Like we were his last friends.

Oh.  Does that mean he passed away during our way back home?

Now that I think of it, he went on his merry way, still riding his bike, after I faked a call from my girlfriend to get ourselves out of this intense situation.  Maybe he got hit again!  What will it be this time?  One broken leg, a fat lip, and hundred dollars in painkillers?

I’m telling you, doing active listening while you couldn’t care less about what the person is saying sucks the energy right out of you.  Do everything you can to avoid it.  Plug some earphones in and listen to your favourite music instead, even if you just have a 10-second jingle looping on your player.  I plan to do just that when I’ll take care of my laundry tonight to make sure no one bothers me in the elevator.  If you don’t have a music player, jam some cotton swabs in each ear.  The cotton may get stuck in your ears — it may even make them bleed — but at least you won’t have to deal with…  The Aylmer Talker.

Toronto for fun

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Two weeks ago, three of my friends and I went to Toronto just for fun.  This is the fifth time I’m going to Toronto, but the first time I didn’t have any purpose.  No Japanese Language Proficiency Test or anything else.  Just go there to enjoy being there.

Despite the messy piles of garbage, it was pretty fun.  One of us who knows Toronto well is great to have as a guide.   We went to various ethnic neighbourhoods, ate some great dumplings in Chinatown and Japanese food at Ematei on St. Patrick (I lived on St. Patrick before… in Ottawa), saw the movie “Brüno” (funny, but now I feel sorry for everyone I know named Bruno), shopped in the famous Yonge-Dundas square, and finished at J-Town, the Japanese shopping plaza in Markham.

More photos on Flickr.

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